Drugs can affect children at all stages of development. A child can be affected before they are born, right after they are born, as young children, and as teenagers. Children can also be affected by parental drug use. This guide will discuss the impacts of drugs at each of these stages of development and how to get children the treatment they need.
Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome
What Does Neonatal Mean?
Neonatal is defined as relating to or affecting a newborn infant during the first month after birth. Neonatal is a term used in many different areas of medicine. Addiction treatment is one field of medicine to use the term neonatal because of neonatal abstinence syndrome.
What is Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome?
Neonatal abstinence syndrome (NAS) is a group of medical problems faced by newborns who were exposed to addictive drugs during their mother’s pregnancy. Drugs the mother takes pass through the placenta to the baby. The baby becomes physically dependent on the drug at the same time as the mother.
If the mother continues to take drugs immediately before birth, the newborn will emerge entirely dependent on that drug. The newborn will experience withdrawal symptoms while its body is slowly getting the drug out of their system.
Neonatal Opioid Withdrawal Syndrome
NOWS is the blanket term to describe a newborn with NAS caused solely by opioids. This is the most common type of NAS.
NAS With Drugs Other Than Opioids
A newborn may experience NAS and withdrawal symptoms when exposed in the womb to:
Although they won’t experience NAS or withdrawal symptoms, there may be long-term health effects on babies that were exposed to:
What Are the Signs of NAS?
Signs of NAS may be different for every newborn, most occur within 3 days of birth, but some newborns may not show signs for up to 6 months. If your newborn is showing signs of NAS, contact a doctor as soon as possible. Signs may include:
Poor feeding and low weight
Initial Medical Complications for the Newborn
Babies with NAS are at increased risk of:
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). SIDS may cause the unexplained death of the baby while sleeping.
Low birthweight. If your baby weighs less than 5 lbs.
Jaundice. Your baby’s eyes and skin look yellow, meaning the liver hasn’t developed properly.
How is NAS Diagnosed?
A medical provider can use a few different tests to diagnose NAS. There is a NAS scoring system that assigns points based on the severity of your baby’s symptoms. Urine can be tested for drugs. The baby’s first stool can also be tested for drugs.
Treatment for NAS
Newborn Intensive Care Unit (NICU)
A newborn with NAS is likely to require treatment in a NICU to stabilize its condition and manage the withdrawal symptoms. A NICU is a nursery in a hospital that provides 24-hour care for newborns that are sick or premature.
Medication-Assisted Treatment (MAT)
MAT involves giving the newborn medications to treat or manage withdrawal symptoms. The dosages of the medications will be tapered as their system gets rid of the dependent drug and withdrawal symptoms ease.
Medications used may include:
Non-medication interventions may include:
Swaddling is the age-old practice of tightly restricting a newborn’s limbs with blankets
Rocking is slowly moving your newborn back and forth while holding it
Skin-to-skin contact calms both the mother and newborn
Sensory limitation is keeping the newborn in a dark room without loud sounds
Consistent temperature to avoid having the newborn system work to adapt to different temperatures
Bottle feedings alternating with a pacifier is the sucking is excessive
Breast milk feedings Have many health benefits for the newborn
Long-Term Effects of NAS
Developmental delays are when a child doesn’t meet developmental milestones when expected. The milestones include things like walking, sitting, talking, and social skills
Speech problems when a child has trouble communicating and being understood due to trouble making the appropriate sounds.
Ear infections are common in children, but children with NAS may have more frequent and more severe infections
Visions problems can include the inability to focus and can include things like balance and orientation
Sleep problems which can impact a child’s overall health in many ways
Motor problems are issues with the child’s development of muscle, bones, and movement
Behavior problems which impact the education and socialization of the child
Hearing problemsincluding hearing loss and language delays
Cognitive problems include poor memory, poor perceptual skills, and poor learning skills
Child abuse and neglect are more likely to occur when a parent struggling with drugs identifies the child as difficult to deal with, or even a “bad” child
Low self-esteem which impacts many areas of a child’s development
We are still learning about the long-term effects of NAS. Many other effects could be found after more studies are concluded, and researchers have more data.
Drug Endangered Toddlers
Many toddlers are exposed to direct or indirect exposure to illegal drugs. Drug endangered toddlers gained visibility with the rise of methamphetamine use, but meth isn’t the only drug that causes issues; cocaine is the other top contributing drug.
A drug endangered toddler is defined as a toddler who suffers from physical harm or neglect when living in a house where illegal drugs are used or manufactured.
Exposure to Meth
Toddlers can be exposed to meth either by finding pieces of meth, or powdered meth, and ingesting it. Toddlers can also be exposed through second-hand meth smoke in the home.
Symptoms of a toddler exposed to meth can include:1
Increased heart rate
Exposure to Toxic Chemicals Used to Manufacture Meth
Almost every illegal meth lab contains toxic substances. Many of these substances can cause contact burns and damage the lungs when inhaled. Several of the substances can cause fires and explosions.
Substances used to make meth can include:2
Neglect and Abuse
Parents who are addicted to drugs, or who are illegally manufacturing drugs, pose a significant risk to their toddlers. The toddler may not receive the nurturing or emotional contact that are needed for development. This can lead to developmental delays, depression, or attachment disorder.
A drug endangered toddler may also be malnourished, have poor hygiene, and not receive the medical attention they need. These can all contribute to serious health concerns.
Teen Drug Abuse
In 2019, the National Institute on Drug Abuse completed a large-scale survey of more than 42,500 students from public and private schools in the United States. The results of this survey, called Monitoring the Future, have revealed important information about adolescents, their drug abuse patterns, and the drugs they choose to abuse.3
The overall theme of the survey is that drug use, specifically cigarettes and prescription opioids, is at an all-time low.3 The following describes the results by each category of substance abused:
Alcohol use and binge drinking have decreased among 10th-12th graders, according to the National Institute on Drug Abuse.3 In 2019, an estimated 29.3% of 12th graders reported using alcohol in the last 30 days. This is a decrease from 37.4% of 12th graders in 2014.3
In addition, the amount of teenagers who report drinking at all has decreased since previous years’ surveys. In 1994, an estimated 55.8% of eighth-graders reported drinking alcohol at some point in their lives. In 2019, an estimated 24.5% of eighth-graders reported drinking alcohol at some point in their lives.
Most of the alcohol that teenagers consume is in a binge drinking situation.4 This can particularly place a young person at risk for motor vehicle accidents, risky sexual behaviors, and more.
According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, an estimated 35.7% of teenagers in 8th-12th grade reported using marijuana in the last 30 days.3 A vast majority of students (86.4%) report using marijuana by smoking it compared to alternate options, such as edibles.3
While marijuana use overall has decreased since the early and mid-2000s, daily marijuana use has increased slightly over time, particularly among 10th-grade students surveyed.3
“Club” drugs, such as amphetamines and LSD, have either maintained their previous levels of abuse or slightly increased, particularly in LSD, according to the National Institute on Drug Abuse.3
An estimated 2.7% of high school seniors reported using prescription painkillers, such as hydrocodone, oxycodone, or morphine, in 2019.3 This number is a drop from previous numbers in 2014. Oxycontin was the most-named prescription medication of use in the United States among those surveyed.
Reasons Why Teens Use Drugs
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, alcohol is the first substance that most young people try.4 By eighth grade, an estimated 28% of young people have tried alcohol. What’s more, an estimated 12% have been drunk at least once.4
The National Institute on Drug Abuse has identified several potential reasons as to why young people may start using drugs or may become addicted to drugs.5 These include:
Desire to fit in with their peer group: when others are experimenting with drugs, a young person may feel like they want to be a part of the group and that they’ll be excluded if they don’t participate.
To feel better: some young people use drugs to try to escape their mental health concerns, family life, or school pressures.
To increase performance: some young people may try to use prescription medications to overcome an injury or to be able to stay awake and study longer.
Out of curiosity: whether they’ve seen a parent or someone on television or in a movie use drugs, some young people are simply curious about using drugs.
How to Spot Drug Use in Children
Children may be exposed to drug use at school, with friends, or in their homes. While a vast majority of children who try drugs don’t become addicted, using drugs can still impact them in several different ways. Drug use can affect a young person’s physical and emotional well-being. It can get them in trouble at school and with the law.
Some of the signs that a child may be abusing drugs or alcohol include:
Changes in their personal appearance, such as appearing messy or unkempt
Changes in their pupil size, such as very large or very small pupils
Exhibiting hostile behavior around the house
Showing sudden or unexplained weight loss
Finding drugs or drug accessories (pipes, straws, etc.)
Lying or seeming paranoid when asked where they are going or who they are going to be with
If they seem to be very influenced by their peers or very preoccupied by what their friends think
If their breath smells of unusual substances, such as alcohol or smoke
Exhibiting behavioral problems at school
Struggling with grades
Showing different behaviors, such as depression, fatigue, or isolation
It Can Be Hard to Tell the Difference Between Normal Teen Behavior and Drug Abuse
Adolescents go through many changes at this stage that can make it hard to tell the difference between typical “teenager” behavior and drug abuse. However, if a parent notices sudden changes in personality, appearance, or overall well-being, it’s important to consider that a young person could be going through physical or emotional problems. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, issues with school performance is often one of the later signs that a young person is abusing drugs or alcohol.4
According to Stanford Children’s Health, some adolescents are at greater risk for substance abuse. Examples of these risk factors include:6
History of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
History of anxiety or toher mental health disorders
History of struggles with school and academic performance
History of the child being chronically impulsive
Children whose parents have a low socioeconomic status are also at higher risk for substance abuse or substance experimentation.
How to Deal with a Child Who is Addicted to Drugs
Intervening, even on a low level, can help to reduce substance use and abuse in young people, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics.4 This could include simply talking to a young person about their drug use. However, if a young person shows signs of full-blown dependence to a substance or suicidal thoughts related to their substance abuse, a parent should help their child seek either rehabilitation or professional help from a therapist or counselor.
How to Help a Child Experiencing Addiction to Drugs
If a parent isn’t sure where to begin when helping a child struggling with addiction or experimentation, a good place to start would be to talk to the child’s pediatrician or school counselor. Teenagers are traditionally opposed to the idea of seeking help for their problems. This could be for several reasons. Some young people don’t think their drug abuse is a serious problem. Others are afraid of losing their friend group, or that other people will find out they are struggling.2
What researchers do know is that the earlier a young person can receive treatment for substance abuse, the better their chance of recovery. Seeking out a family counselor or other community resource can help a young person recover from their substance abuse problem and learn to make more positive life choices.
Examples of ways to communicate with a young person about their substance use:
- Provide clear advice. Being very direct and clear with a teenager is important.
Example: “I think you should stop drinking, and the time to stop is right now.”
- Share educational materials that come directly from reputable sources.
Example: Provide the young person with information on the harmful effects of smoking, alcohol, or other illegal substances.
- Reinforce the education by showing how it affects each aspect of a young person’s life.
Example: Explain how they may not be able to stay on a sports team or participate in school, work, or other group-related activities.
- Help a young person make a plan to quit, and discuss how they may deal with issues that arise, such as peer pressure from friends.
Sometimes, a family member may have to reach out to a therapist or a child’s doctor to start these conversations and to help hold a young person accountable.
Substance Use Disorder Treatment for Children
Treatment for a young person struggling with addiction to drugs can include therapy (both individual and family therapy) as well as rehabilitation programs, such as inpatient or outpatient therapy. If friends and family have tried to get a young person to quit abusing drugs or alcohol and the young person can’t or won’t stop on their own, they may need more intensive professional help to quit.
A parent can ask their child’s doctor or contact area rehabilitation facilities to find out more about services offered. Some programs around the country are explicitly geared toward young people. This may help an adolescent feel more comfortable in treatment.
Drug abuse treatment for young people involves breaking the early habits that have led to a young person’s dependence on drugs and trying to help them get on a healthier, safer path as soon as possible.
This may include cognitive-behavioral therapy, motivational interviewing, and other therapies that help a young person learn how to relieve stress and express themselves in a manner that isn’t through drugs or alcohol. Following a rehabilitation program, a young person and their family may need to continue their recovery through participation in support groups, whether online or in person.
Help for Parents of Children Who are Addicted to Drugs
Some of the resources that can help a parent whose child is struggling with substance abuse include the following:
Partnership for Drug-Free Kids: The Partnership offers a parent hotline that parents can call at 1-855-378-4372 to share their story with experts who can help them find solutions for their child. A parent can also text their questions to 55753 for help.
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): SAMHSA offers a free and confidential National Helpline that people can call to receive information about treatments. This number is 1-800-662-HELP (4357).
Effects of Substance Abuse on Child Development
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, there is no “safe” amount of substance use for young people, because there are numerous effects on young people who use different substances.4
In the short-term, substance abuse can affect young people because it can lead to injuries and accidents. Some examples of short-term effects on child development include:
Violence and Accidents
Motor vehicle accidents
Intimate partner violence
These factors can all lead to unintentional injuries and even death.4
Academic and Social
Young people can also experience problems with their academic and social interactions, which can impair their future.4 One study from the American Academy of Pediatrics found that adolescents who use marijuana experience diminished lifetime achievement compared to young people that do not use marijuana.4 This may be in part because marijuana use in adolescence can cause potentially irreversible impairment in brain functioning, even if they stop smoking marijuana at a later time.
Researchers have also identified the long-term effects of early substance use (including illegal consumption of alcohol). The American Academy of Pediatrics found that people who drink before age 15 are five times more at risk for alcohol dependence or abuse later in life.4 Adolescents who try marijuana before age 14 are also six times more likely to meet the criteria for drug dependence or abuse.
Parental Drug Use
The following section will address parental substance abuse, and how a parent who is addicted to drugs may impact a child.
Statistics on Parental Drug Abuse
According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), an estimated 1 in 8 children who are ages 17 and younger live in a household where at least one parent struggles with a substance use disorder.7 This is an estimated 8.7 million young people in the United States.
Parent with AUD
The most significant number of children who live with a parent who struggles with substance abuse have a parent who is addicted to alcohol. An estimated 7.5 million American children (about 10% of children) live with at least one parent who has an alcohol use disorder.7 SAMHSA further breaks down this group by ages:
- Ages 0 to 2: 10.1% of the age group 10.1% 10.1%
- Ages 3 to 5: 9.9% of the age group 9.9% 9.9%
- Ages 6 to 11: 10.2% of the age group 10.2% 10.2%
- Ages 12 to 17: 11.3% of the age group 11.3% 11.3%
- Ages 0 to 2: 4% of the age group 4% 4%
- Ages 3 to 5: 3.5% of the age group 3.5% 3.5%
- Ages 6 to 11: 3% of the age group 3% 3%
- Ages 12 to 17: 2.1% of the age group 2.1% 2.1%
While a significantly higher amount of parents abuse alcohol compared to illegal drugs, both have the potential to cause long-lasting and harmful effects on the lives of their children.
How Parental Drug Use Affects Children
According to SAMHSA, a child whose parent struggles with a substance abuse disorder is more likely to have a substance abuse problem later in life.7
Research indicates that children of parents who use drugs are more likely to experience several concerns related to drug use. For example, children of parents who abuse drugs are more likely to experience behavioral and mental health problems compared to children whose parents do not struggle with drug addiction.7
Children of parents who drink alcohol are more likely to experience symptoms such as:
Challenges in cognitive and verbal skills
Parental abuse and neglect
Children whose parents struggle with alcohol abuse are four times as likely to struggle with alcohol abuse as a child whose parents do not, according to SAMHSA.7
Long-Term Problems from Parental Drug Use
Increased risks for mental health problems and substance abuse can lead to long-term behavioral problems in a child. A child never has the time to develop proper coping mechanisms for challenges in daily life because they have been so overloaded from an early age.8 This can lead to long-term substance abuse, violence, and a lifetime struggle with mental illness.8
Parental Neglect Due to Substance Abuse
When a parent struggles with substance abuse, the time, effort, and energy, they may have otherwise spent on their child is often replaced by whatever substance they are abusing. This can lead to neglect and abuse, such as when a child doesn’t have food, a safe or clean home, or the school support they need to develop.
Factors that may contribute to child neglect and mistreatment related to substance abuse include:
Food and housing insecurities
Ineffective control of childhood behaviors
Children whose parents struggle with substance abuse are more likely to live in households that have unique problems like mental illness, low socioeconomic status, and domestic violence. These challenges can create a very negative environment for a child, and they often require a child to grow up very quickly.
According to the journal Pediatrics, children of parents who abuse drugs and alcohol are three times more likely to experience physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.8 Also, children whose parents struggle with substance abuse are four times more likely to be emotionally or physically neglected.
An estimated 27% of children born to women with a substance abuse disorder require child protective services during their preschool years.8 Also, an estimated 20% of child neglect or child abuse cases are related to a parent that has a substance use disorder.8
Help for Children of Parents Who are Addicted to Drugs
Children whose parents struggle with substance abuse are often faced with different roles growing up than most children their age. They may feel they’ve had to take on the role of “parent” instead of being allowed to be a child. These young people may have had to care for a parent who is hungover, high, or withdrawing from substances. They may have had to work or help find the money for food and basic needs around the house.
It is exceptionally complicated to grow up with a parent who struggles with substance abuse. A parent may be dependent on a child for love and support instead of the other way around. A child may fear to share with others that their parent has a problem because they don’t want to go into the foster system or live with anybody else.
Ways for a Child to Deal with the Stress of a Parent Who Abuses Drugs
Some of the ways that a young person can start to work through these feelings include:
- Keeping a journal of their feelings so they can start to learn how to recognize their emotions. An alternative to a journal is a creative outlet, such as music, art, dance, or other avenues that allow a person to express themselves.
- Keeping in touch with friends. Sometimes, children of a parent who struggles with addiction may avoid making too many friends because they are embarrassed or concerned that other people will recognize that their parent has a problem. However, friends are vital to supporting a young person and also allowing them to grow up and develop.
- Finding activities to enjoy. A young person participating in activities like sports, extracurricular clubs, or volunteer work can all provide a safe and supportive outlet outside of their parents’ substance abuse.
Resources to Help
If a young person has a parent who struggles with addiction, there are often resources in their communities to help. They should begin by talking to a trusted adult. Examples can include a teacher, pediatrician, coach, guidance counselor, or clergy member. A trusted adult can help a young person find who they should speak with that can help not only themselves but can potentially help their parent too.
There are support groups specifically designed for young people who have a parent who struggles with addiction. An example is Alateen, a division of Alcoholics Anonymous. Through the Alateen website, young people can find local meetings or online support groups.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
If a child or parent struggles with suicidal thoughts, another vital support line to know is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. The number is 1-800-273-TALK (8255) and is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week, to help people who are struggling with suicidal thoughts.
Treatment for Substance Use Disorder
Treatment programs exist specifically for parents who struggle with substance abuse who may not be able to leave their homes on a full-time basis to seek care. These programs may include going to a substance abuse treatment center for the equivalent amount of time as a part-time or full-time job. These programs can be vital in helping a parent receive necessary therapy and support to recover.
Rehabilitation may involve taking medications to avoid using prescription opioids or alcohol. Parents may also be able to receive social work help, such as help identifying how to find a job, pay for bills, and find safe housing after rehabilitation.
Following addiction treatment, a parent must participate in some form of an addiction aftercare program. These programs (such as Alcoholics Anonymous or SMART Recovery) help a person continually engage in their sobriety. Through these programs, many people find parents just like them who have struggled but are committed to overcoming their problems for their children and themselves.